small talk

i have a small talk on msn with a friend today... he talks about himself being a joke and how tough it is staying with his family too...

i came across this story and i relate this story to him.. this is how it goes

"When u grow up and it's time for u to take on the world, u did just fine but somewhere along the line, u changed. U stop being u. U let people stick a finger in your face and tell u that u're no good. And when things got hard, u started looking for something to blame, like a big shadow."

the story continues

"Let me tell you something you already know. The world ain’t all sunshine and rainbows. It is a very mean and nasty place and I don’t care how tough you are, it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it. You, me, or nobody is gonna hit as hard as life. But it ain't about how hard u got hit; it's about how hard u get hit and moving forward. It’s How much you can take, and keep moving forward. That’s how winning is done. Now, if you know what you’re worth, then go out and get what you’re worth. But you got to be willing to take the hits, and not point fingers and blame other people. Cowards do that and that ain’t you. You’re better than that!”

i relate the story to him and tell him that he can be the best thing in the world and in this life but unless he start believing in himself, his is not going to have a life.

Winning is never easy nor is success.

i thought i was tough too but there r times i couldn't handle the hits as well... sometimes life tends to kick u right at your face.. i too was unable to press the emotional thing down...

I have a small talk yesterday and was told that if u love someone, the love will always be there... if u love someone u would want the person u love to be happy even if it means u couldn't be with that person

i agree to the fact that when u love someone, the love will always going to be there... i also agree to the fact that if u love a person, u would want to see the person to be happy

but this is my take... if u knew u love that person so much... then do something... u do all u can to make sure u be with u then.....

evaluate why is she hesitating.. make changes and make sure u get her...

same applicable on jobs and everything else.... u want something so bad... u go out there and take it.. u don't wait..

losers wait....

i adhere very much to the american doctrine, living the american dream... win or lose very much depends on the person itself... rich or poor also very much depends on the person itself...

i acknowledge to the fact that my belief or philosophies r weird if not funny at times.... but this is my take... your belief shape who u r...

this is the irony part... people always complain about losers and coward but sometimes forget to see where himself/herself stand.... yes, there's no wrong on complaining but don't always just complain... talk about solution as well...

of course.. sometimes don't be too hard on ownself... thats what i was told... and i knew where she is coming from...

i knew i could do better.... having lunch/dinner/breakfast with her has been awesome... and yes... u keep me falling deeper and deeper as if its some bottomless pit...

i speak to another friend today and he told me how he got himself a new girl.. by the way.. he aleady have a gf... so it's basically 2 girl at the same time for him... i can never bring myself to understand this theory.. brand me weak or even call me weak but i always think... 1 heart 1 girl is more than enough...

searching for the one??

i always say this... the one lies on the fact u want to think if he/she is the one or not... it's down to yoruself... if u think he/she is the one then he/she will be the one... u keep thinking the one is out there waiting for u then u go and grab it... u don't wait...

"i love u and i will wait for u"

is by far the most stupid and idiotic words i have ever came across a guy saying... come on!! have u ever heard time and tide wait for no man?? by the way.. waiting does not give u love... waiting doesn't give u money as well.. u know what it'll gives u?? spiderweb... don't get all stupid and think u'll be some kind of spiderman... that ain't happening in real life...

said is easier than done... i had my downtime too

but i knew.... with highschool sweetheart in my arms... i have peace wherever i go and i knew... she is that living support that will not fade... of course as long as i'm doing my part

i don't settle for near perfect... i always say.. y go for 2 dollars when u can earn 5 dollars...

there is a difference between a successful individual and a loser... which category u fit into??

don't get all funny and answer me honda fit ya..

u'll see what u believe..... start believing before u start seeing success...

my two cents..