july 7

i like the current weather so much... so wow.. it's not hot.. it's windy.. it's cooling and best of all... it rains!!! i enjoy raining so much... :D

talked over the phone last night with my partner till the wee hours... was so darn tired the next day... and the funny part is i totally forgot about tutoring.. crap!!

went to have steamboat/hot pot with my friend after the tutoring.. we talked a lot.. do some catching up... he just brought a house at the peak.. yea.. "brought" lol.. but yea.. congrats!! we talked a lot on businesses as well... he shared some of his view... to be frank.. i understand where he coming from but to me... his statement seems superficial... i have been indulge myself as of late with many many business ideas and project....

as we r having our dinner... he met with his old friend, a guy that he said earns around 10K every month... of course he said.. there's nothing to be jealous about.. he worked his ass off... he deserve it... i don know about him or anyone but i'm really jealous.... i read an article that once said.. we have no control of what is put beneath is.. if we're born in the land of stones, we have to make a statue out of it, if we're born in the land of fire, we'll make barbeque out of it but we have no control over what is beneath is... we however r bless with the same thing between our ears... someone make good use of it while some don't.. it's how much we willing to use it that determine how high we'll go...

seriously... we're all humans... if someone can earn bug bucks why can't we??

as i was driving home after the dinner.. i turn to the BFM.. i really enjoy the interview they have there... they interview a successful doctor who practices psychiatric.. he share with us on how to talk to other ppl.. instead of keep saying u, he says.. says ME or I... every wording that have the word U will make other party more defensive... for example... "u r wrong" can be said "i think the the situation could have a more positive impact if... "

he also said that using the word and to replace the word but.. for example.. "u r right but.. " instead, it can be said "i agree with you and feel the situation can improve more remarkably if.... "

what do u think??

he then continue as saying the three yes from customer... the serenity quote... the law of attraction... the methodology of self-belief... the clarity is knowledge and knowledge is power statement... and also the evaluation theory...

honestly speaking... do u really need a doctorate degree to understand all that?? i don put it as common sense but it's something really basic.... for this interview... i'm fairly dissapointed.. please do say something which i haven't heard of...

i mean come on.. lol.. it's like u're telling me kancil is of perodua production

he then continue... oh yea.. yes.. i continue listening to the interview through the net and though it's something i heard of, i want to listen more just to c if there's omething more to it.. anyway this is what he say....

A is equal to B, B is equal to C... A does not really equal to C... very simple... cat is mammal, dog is a mammal but cat does not equal to a dog... both true statement does not equal to a true conclusion... it depends very much on the premises and logic application behind it...

logic reasoning... is how he conclude his closing... u reason with logic and a reasonable premise...

seriously, a degree holder can deliver such "magnificant"statement.. u must be some kind of doctorate holder.. i begin to wonder if it's from university of honolulu or instant-graduate university...

yada-yada...

my buddy IM me from canada yesterday.. i was happy talking to him.. we shared a lot too... haven talked to him for ages... he said i've changed a lot.. i do not know if it's a good thing or a bad thing but if i'm still the same as who i am 3 years ago.. i'm in deep shit trouble.. we grew, we learned new things and we do change.. some funny statement..

sure i agree there r times not many people understand what's going on in my head but it's partically normal because u're not me and unless u take time to study or understand.. maybe u will know why i do the thing i do.. sometimes by judging someone.. u can hell learn a lot from that individual..

sometimes when u look at a fail product, a successful product or individual.. u can learned a lot... to evaluate why certain things fail or success... will elevate u to a certain degree as well.. life is a life-long-study thing... we have to constantly stud and read to be successful...

i knew there's always ppl who like to say silly or retarded things to pull u down or make u lose your confidence... if u're not up to the challenges then as the song goes... "if u ain't got no money then take your broke ass home"

have u heard of the song by r.kelly called the world's greatest?? the chorus is inspiring.. listen to it before u start your day... and of course if fanyone ask u who r u.. stand up tall, look at his face and says.. i'm the world's greatest

everyone is elevating and climbing up the ladder... where r u?? if u're not.. then it's time my blogamaniacs.. to up your A game and tell those that who don't to go fly kite...

i speak to one friend yesterday.. she's doing this MLM thing.. i listened... she bring me to meet with the founder of the MLM group.. the founder showed me that she is driving this BMW.. apparently very proud of it... it's a brand new car i can see but... it's only a 320i.. seriously.. that's not something proud.... u tell me how great driving the car... i know u r playing the feeling game but come on... a 320i?? it's better than any japanese car but have u even try driving the 5 series?? seriously... u must have fell and knock your head real bad if u think by driving the 320i is something grand...

anyway... something really sad happen yesterday... as i was driving back home after meeting an old friend of mine... along jalan kuching... u c.. i was driving.. doing my own thing... the car in front of me suddenly sway to the left.. i was wondering.. why would it sway to the left.. little i knew.. in the middle there lies a cat.... i was shock... i sway to the left too... but darn!! i knew i hit something... it was alive when the accident happen...

i'm a cat killer...

lord have mercy....