uh huh

many things had happen and had been really busy these few days or this week...

talk to a friend just now... he told me of his problem with his gf... he talk a lot.. venting to be precise

stating how his girl being not understanding and how tough his gf is being

i totally understand when a girl is being a tough nut, life is getting hard for the guy... when a guy being submitive then she would say he being weak.. when he being the hard nut.. this is what u get.. a big bang when two goes head to head

he continue venting and swearing at times...

i then stop him.... saying something stupid

i replied " actually, all she want is just your attention and care, she could have give u lots of lemon and also act like a bitch, however i think all women want is just that extra attention "

he went off saying he already give her a lot.. so and so

at that moment... i thought to myself.. this is the rally stupid part of relationship

two individual who cope well with each other, have good time with each other.. why on earth why want to make a difficult life more difficult... maybe just that both at times does not know what both party wants thus say something hurtful or do something hurtful...

did i get hurt before?? that's a yes

how about burn?? oh yea... definetely

i don think i'm tired for i know hurt is tougher than being tired.... how long can one last the run?? this i firmly believe i'm more stubborn than anyone i met.. i don stop until i reach the final line

i then stop my friend again and said

seriously, how many more 10 years do u have in your lifetime?? if u really love somebody then enjoy the remaining few 10 years u going to have with that somebody... u don't like it or feel someone suit u better.. then by all means go ahead

this is my take.. in the end all women r basically the same.. they all need that extra attention and if u can't give it to them... be prepared to have that hated argument which i believe all men hate...

thats my opinion

an old friend of mine once said

she could be less pretty, she could have a figure which does not resemble a model and she could be poor but if she is a wife material... she is all u need in your life

i couldn't agree more

what is a wife material u asked

everyone has their own definition.. and i have to agree with this statement, respect their definition and not let anybody change it... u can take their opinion into consideration but don't change it nor do u stand firm on it for the sake of standing firm...

ip man movie once say this

there's different class of people in the society but what us so special we can have different class of dignity??

its not that i cant take any challenges but when an individual try to act like a hot shot and shooting me down.. u c, by all means go ahead but i don think it should be to a point of disrespecting..

no, it's not really about ego or pride

in a relationship to me its about respect and trust, which of course also apply on friendship, family and others...

as said, treat other as u would like to be treated..

i feel really tired and sleepy now.. more works to be done tomorrow..

so much more...