fall from grace

fall from grace?? it was never a graceful move.. cheater who choose the dead road will have to face the consequences sooner or later.. it was never fall from grace... it's karma, what goes around come around

have a talk with a friend of mine today.. he is doing his master in computer science now.. he told me what a failure of a person he is.. he never success in getting the girl he wants... now, evaluating his situation and position is a good sign of improvement... he continue by saying how his friends who knew how to sweet talk gets all the girls... this is my reply.. my personal point of view

yes, nice guy always finish last but nice guy with quality always wins in the end.. those dude that knew how to sweet talk gets all the ladies.. but they won't last... these type of guys nothing to admire about.. so they get the girl... how long can they maintain it and let's say they get married... how far can he go with sweet talk... he's married...

seriously..

feel bad for the girl?? come on.. the girl make her own decision.. how to feel bad.. ask why the chick so dumb to fall for such thing?? practically speaking... i don really care... them being stupid is their problem... i'm a very selfish individual who concern how i perform and what i do rather than think about why them being stupid....

of course it's a different situation if that girl is someone u really like... my blogamaniacs.. i understand but seriously... what can u do... it's a game of survival of the fittest... that dude must be fitter than u in some sense that's y u lose out... so long as u're the fittest of them all.. there's no way u will lose... no way...

be it career or relationship... it's always darwin theory.. survival of the fittest...

i talked to another friend today.. she kinda find out that his so call "bf" is cheating on her.. i at the moment do not know what to say.. it is afterall a problem between themself... and i am afterall a third party who happen to listen her problems..

i'm not cold blooded but i don think i'm in position to tell the girl what to do... she should know what to do... i can tell her if i'm her what i would do..

just like what i said above... how to wake her up if she don't know when or why to wake up... if she doesn't know how to protect herself.. who am i to protect her... as a friend?? thats only that much i can do... a guy lending help to a girl too much will just make her current gf jealous... vice versa...

am i a jealous guy?? i am but i am very understanding as well... yea, complimenting myself but i believe i am an understanding partner..

i'm however stuborn in my very own way but i have a reason on why i'm being stuborn on certain issues... just because some ppl have a close mind, not willing to listen, don't spend time to listen, or just don't undestand... doesn't mean what i'm doing is wrong...

a book once said, right or wrong is always detemine by the individual itself... law is to govern the society in making sure chaos does not break out or life been taken away...

speaking of life... ppl die everyday here in malaysia due to robbery or whatever stupid reason which could be prevented...

anyway i agree u have your view and i have mine but isn't it always better to respect each others view... and share each others view?? just because ppl think differently, doesn't mean that person is arrogant or stupid

link back to my story above, stupid is by our interpretation... that person might not think so... so i say... let it be... just by listening is already probably one of the best option...