conversation

i had this small conversation with a married friend earlier today

the conversation goes like this, base on relationship

me : so tell me, how's married life
him : i enjoy it a lot
me : any particular changes on your life??
him : no, i enjoy it a lot.. u c bro... (he likes calling me that, not really sure why) u need to know how to choose a girl.. she has to be wife material.. no need pretty but then don' too ugly... no need to be young, don't too old as sometimes young girl tend to be immature...
me : i couldn't agree more, i don't think look r that important, i think its respect and also communicating r important
him : it's also about respect la bro, end of the day u want to marry a wife material not just a gf material... if a girl don respect your feeling it's pointless... u know one thing that makes me like my wife so much?
me : what
him : i don have to worry or stress about anything.. it's very comfortable with her.. my previous ex although is pretty gives me plenty of headache when with her... arguments a lot, never really respect me.. just plain headache...
me : work already lots of headache eh
Him : ya la~!!
Me : haha~!! maybe her current husband like headache but then.. i guess every ppl r different
Him : won't different too much de la, but i don think i have the energy or power to entertain or stand her
Me : HAHA~!!

some women believe look is all it matters.. i agree to just a certain degree

actually i agree very much on what he say but sometimes, again it's easier to be said than done...

after i finish my class today, i went to pick up my loan equipment for next week out station trip... i then stop by 1 U to walk.. yes!! u're right that i walked alone.. nothing to shout about or be happy at but i reckon someone is doing something at that hour, i decided to walked the mall and just do the things i wanted to do

i notice couples and also what other people r buying... 1 coupel particular caught my eye

now, before i continue i would like to stress that i don stalk.. i just enjoy observing because there's always something can learn from observing something

anyway this couple... definetely cute, not in terms of their look but by how they communicate... both probably in their mid 20's but i c them having a lot of fun together

i had my fair share of fun and i totally understand how relaxing it can be...

working environment is stress and i strongly believe nobody will disagree with this statement.. why would then after work want to have stresss... again, be it for whatever reason... in cantonese there's this saying

big thing become small thing and small thing become nothing...

not nothing become something and something become anything and anything become everything

again it depends of course

sometimes it's hard to be specific however i don intend on explaining much either

getting late 3am.. can't help but wondering what's happening on the other side.. but then again.. can i asked much?? one once said i never really think of her feelings.... seriously, have someone ever asked what i feel??

this i speak for majority guys out there... we don't speak doesn't mean we have nothing to say... there's a reason to it... and guys hate arguing.. worse come to worst we just use our fist to do the talking... thats cause we guys can't really stand stress because work place already enough stress... so any guys who idiot enough to bring stress afterwork... definetely deserve smack right across his face... he must be either too free that he don't work or just plain stupid...

this type of guys have a title to them... and they r called a faggot

oh trust me.. i have seen this type of guys.... getting all angry because of something small.. in my view small of course...

unless it involve money, parents, life, wife or gf...

guys don really argue about anything else.. not about food, where to go, what to eat, what movie to watch, or if u care about his feelings or not...

again guys who do argue about almost everything r called a faggot

not to be bias or discriminating.. but please act accordingly, i hate this type of fags

idiot that act smart or think they r hotshot... please

go fly kite